*sighs with bliss* When love is done correctly, it’s so beautiful to watch. Two of my best friends were in a relationship, and it was just so inspiring. Now, sometimes it’s so beautiful that it could make you sick. No literally….at times I wanted to puke. Last spring break, I made the unfortunate decision to stay with them while I was in Austin. I was in Austin to party and forget about my singleness! Lol it’s hard to forget about your singleness when you’re surrounded by a couple that spends their time completing online puzzles together and waxing each other. Yes….he waxed her legs for her. Lol Well those are the lovebirds, and to them Valentine’s Day is just another day share their love. And that’s beautiful….
Now, let me be clear: I AM NOT JUDGING. BUUUUT, there are women who know that a man is in a relationship, and still pursue him. It’s like they think that they have the upper-hand because they technically aren’t the ones getting cheated on. And I’m sure he’s feeding you all of the lies like: “Baby you’re really the one for me, I just can’t leave her right now”; and “babe we don’t need a label, our love is true”; BUT who is really being lied to here? Who is he really making an effort to keep on that special day? He’s wrong too, but that’s a subject for another post! *snaps in Z formation* On Valentine’s Day there will be many “thots that thought they mattered”, and that sucks.
Unfortunately, I spent most of my sophomore year sprung over The Chameleon. *face palms* Anyways something funny happened about a week before Valentine’s Day. Yep…you guessed it, the fool disappeared! Lol We got into some stupid fight around Valentine’s Day and we weren’t on good terms. Now, I was an idiot and thought it was a coincidence. But now that I’ve had time to look back at it and reflect, I realize that he purposely caused an argument so I wouldn't expect anything for Valentine’s Day, and he could take out one of his other girls. Yep…I was the clueless sideline! Ladies, please be smarter than I was. It’s fine if you don’t want to celebrate Valentine’s Day, just be aware of the real reason you aren’t. #iwasyoungandstupid #hewasaplayer
So it’s Valentine’s Day, and you want to celebrate it with a special someone….but there is no special someone; and that’s ok. The Hopeless Romantic loves the holiday and the spirit of love! They’re wishing that a secret admire will appear on that day, and steal them away on a romantic date. Hopeless Romantics are needed, if they weren’t around we would all just be bitter single people with no one to fall in love with. *twirls*
I have a friend that sends out that: “hey stranger” text out about 3 weeks before Valentine’s Day. #literalyicannot She hated the idea of being alone on Valentine’s Day, so she texts her ex-boyfriends and former flings to prevent that from happening. First, she sends out that text. Then she flirts and compliments them. And in a few weeks, there are flower deliveries and she has a Valentine’s date. The sad thing is, that she may have a date, but she is still alone. You can’t trick yourself into falling in love for a holiday. That isn’t how it works! *snaps in Z formation*. Don’t be a desperate Diana! Instead of looking for love in a hopeless place, spend the day with those that you truly love, your friends and family! #dobetter
No one likes a Bitter Betty! *claps ratchetly* #stopthat Let me give you some advice: You complaining about love and Valentine’s Day isn’t going to get you a man! *snaps in Z formation* You are allowed to be single. You are allowed to ignore Valentine’s Day. However, you are NOT allowed to bash the holiday because you’re bitter. Because people are ALLOWED to be happy…let them! #stophating
Last Valentine’s Day, I had a friend who was checked into heartbreak hotel. She had recently been broken up with. And she was in stage one of recovery: the flowing of the tears. So she spent the whole day looking at old pictures of them, and crying. It was quite tragic! She saw the holiday as a reminder of her broken heart, rather than what is it is meant for. Valentine’s Day is meant to remind you of all of the love that you’re surrounded by. Don’t spend it reminding yourself of your past love; because that’s what it is…the past. Pick your head up girl…your tiara is slipping! * snaps in Z formation* #nomoretearsprincess
One of my best friends doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day at all. She doesn’t hate it, she doesn’t love it….she just doesn’t acknowledge it. It’s just another day. Like the only thing that would (m)ake her feel like the day matters is if someone sent her a heart-shaped pizza! Lol and that’s ok. Some people choose not to make a big deal out of the holiday! #unbothered.
But here’s a little message for BAE: I am not a floater…you better make plans for Valentine’s Day or you may be the heartbroken hoarder! Lol #jk #notreally #imserious